Question, when you get complements do you ever feel like they are fake or do they always feel real? Like bc you guys never get them I feel like when you do they are always by people who care about you and love you enough to give you a real compliment that you really enjoy getting. For us girls we get alot of complements that are people just trying to fill space or just a throw away comment and alot if the time it is never sincere so I want to know if you have it the same
@Toothless yeah i can see how after a while the compliments would start to feel fake. for me they always feel real. i’ve actually started to get more compliments recently because i’ve been taking better care of my appearance and i’ve been dressing better so the compliments i get are in direct response to something i put effort into. that definitely makes them feel more genuine
@Toothless i just want to say it doesnt make sense *to me* for someone to go out of their way to compliment something if they didnt mean it. I would never just say i like your shirt if i didnt think u look really good in it and/or its a really cool shirt etc. even if the compliment seems dumb, its the small details often. But as a girl ive never gotten compliments as a space filler so i guess it depends.
@Space Bar that makes sense. I guess what I really meant is that sometimes people don’t complement you to make you feel better or to make you feel more confident, but just to say something. It is never a straight up lie but when there is an awkward silence between people you have just met alot of the time one person will just randomly say “I like your shirt” or “nice trainers” just to hopefully start some sort of conversation about something, not to actually complement you.
the reason i like this guy is because of his eyes
they are so beautiful
but i knew that every person he meets complements him on them
so i wanna tell him that i like his smile
cuz it’s so pretty and genuine
i love it
edit: lol i see i caught the hopeless romantics in the replies
i decided to move on from him
i know that he likes me because he makes it obvious and so do his friends
but he never makes any moves
and though i too am a hopeless romantic
it isn’t good to linger on people when they do not act on their emotions
Her: “grab his neck”
Me: “Choke him.”
😂😂😂😂😂😂
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Same 😬
Do it
Her: “grab his neck”
Me: *chokes him*
Him: “omg I’m obsessed”
Lol 😆
LMFAOO
Might work for some
@Captain Obvious might work for almost everyone ahahah
i mean tbf, would work
Her: “Tell me more about that”
Me: “I just told you everything, were you not listening?”
Lol
😂😂😂
This cracked me for real😂😂😂
Lmaoooo
Lmfaooo
Him: “my grandma died last night..😭”
Me: “tell me more about that 😏”
I can’t 😭💀
💀💀
HAKSKALALA
😭😭😭🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
lmfao
“My dad died of cancer last night…”
“MmmMM TeLL ME mORe AbOUT ThAT :))”
And that kids is how i met your father
Stop stealing comments….
Lol
Lolll
😂😂😂
the compliment thing is soooo true. i remember every single compliment i’ve ever gotten since the day i was born
Question, when you get complements do you ever feel like they are fake or do they always feel real? Like bc you guys never get them I feel like when you do they are always by people who care about you and love you enough to give you a real compliment that you really enjoy getting. For us girls we get alot of complements that are people just trying to fill space or just a throw away comment and alot if the time it is never sincere so I want to know if you have it the same
@Toothless yeah i can see how after a while the compliments would start to feel fake. for me they always feel real. i’ve actually started to get more compliments recently because i’ve been taking better care of my appearance and i’ve been dressing better so the compliments i get are in direct response to something i put effort into. that definitely makes them feel more genuine
@Toothless i just want to say it doesnt make sense *to me* for someone to go out of their way to compliment something if they didnt mean it. I would never just say i like your shirt if i didnt think u look really good in it and/or its a really cool shirt etc. even if the compliment seems dumb, its the small details often. But as a girl ive never gotten compliments as a space filler so i guess it depends.
@Space Bar that makes sense. I guess what I really meant is that sometimes people don’t complement you to make you feel better or to make you feel more confident, but just to say something. It is never a straight up lie but when there is an awkward silence between people you have just met alot of the time one person will just randomly say “I like your shirt” or “nice trainers” just to hopefully start some sort of conversation about something, not to actually complement you.
Frrr tho
I never get compliments, I got called handsome once and it made my year
I’m still riding off a compliment I got back in highschool lmao
You’re handsome
I used to get called handsome a lot of times, but only from one girl in total
That kinda sucks stupid double standards ig 🤷♀️. Well either way sure y’all are handsome especially personality wise.
You’re very handsome
If the guy didn’t find you attractive in the first place there ain’t nothing you can do.
My female bestfriend who i have mixed feelibgs for:*touches me literally anywhere*
My thoughts:holy sh*t im getting touched by a woman
Bruh these comments 😂💀
Seriously I’m dead scrolling 😂
the reason i like this guy is because of his eyes
they are so beautiful
but i knew that every person he meets complements him on them
so i wanna tell him that i like his smile
cuz it’s so pretty and genuine
i love it
edit: lol i see i caught the hopeless romantics in the replies
i decided to move on from him
i know that he likes me because he makes it obvious and so do his friends
but he never makes any moves
and though i too am a hopeless romantic
it isn’t good to linger on people when they do not act on their emotions
Aww that’s a good idea
aww that’s so cute
thats so beautiful 😭😭
‘your smile is so pretty and genuine, it lights up brighter than your eyes’
or do both, haha
@Aurelia Avalon stoppppp i’d use that actually
“Give him compliments. Boys never get any”
My relatives when they call me big and handsome every day at church: *Am I a joke to you?*
Bro
Everyone at my school takes most compliments as sarcasm just because they’re mostly jokes
LMAO
Every day? 😂
loll
Disclaimer: this only works if you’re hot, in which case, he will obsess over you no matter what you do.
BAHAHAHA frrrr the pretty privilege
@Ava Grace Broo we’ve got the same middle name 😂
even if you’re smokin hot you still won’t be every guy’s type so it’s not that simple to get a guy obsessed w you only by existing lol
@bébéu a guy? cause then that would make sense why u said that😅
All you need is one good compliment and you have his heart
“He might feel tingly. Your feeling tingly but he’s feeling more tingly” 😭😭 bro I’m fr gonna wheeze
Your wrong about everything, all you gotta do is physically touch us. That’ll make us know we have to make the move
@qolaj i did that once and i got embarassed so badly, honestly i feel like it only works if they like u back 🤷♀️
@kiuuhe might not know he likes you until your leg touches his on accident
As a guy these cannot be more accurate
Here’s flowers for you 🌻🌻🌻🌻🌻 just because you deserve them
You one of those Simple dudes
Nah, this wouldn’t work on me these are all basic conversation except the neck and physical touch
@Massacre Mattngl that’s true
@Dark midnightI love the simple dudes
“My gf broke up with me”
“Tell me more”
*chokes him*
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why is this so funny, literally almost peed myself 😭
BAHAHAHA
YOU DIDNT- HAHAHAHAHAH
Lmaooo
Hugging him no matter how tough he is will melt his heart.
Him: I’m married
Her: tell me more about that
🤣🤣
😂😂