Want someone to notice you? What are some things you can be doing to show them what a great person you are so they fall for you in no time? Well, if you look to psychology, the obvious and not so obvious tips, here are a few psychological tricks that can make anyone fall for you.
Want more dating advice? We made another video on the secrets on how to make someone pursue you: https://youtu.be/-m9K5kO0-3E
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my crush watches this channel so if this goes public this is kind of like my confession to her lmaoo anyways swag video
Yo, good luck
I mean, I also watch this channel…does this mean your confessing to me too?
Good vibes dude, your in the right place.
Why does the comment says it was posted 3 months ago.. or is it just me?(the video was posted a few minutes ago)
@sino ka maybe patreon idk
1. Mirror your partner
2. Actually spend time with your partner
3. Show you are capable and intelligent. but still human
4. Show your positive side
5. Wear red!
6. Make a good first impression
Time traveler¿¿¿¿
3 months????
Thank you
Me realizing I had always been doing this but he’s still blind as a bat
1. Mirror your partner 0:49
2. Actually spend time with your partner 1:32
3. Show you are capable and intelligent, but still human 2:36
4. Show your positive side 3:41
5. Wear red 4:22
6. Make a good first impression 5:14
Hope this helps☺️
Thanks time traveller
Hello time traveler, thanks!
How….. I’m confused…… this vid literally has been posted 4 min ago
Time Traveller, do they fall for me?
YouTube is drunk.. the comment was posted 3 months ago and this video was uploaded just a few minutes ago
I can’t express how thankful I am for your videos – they definitely help me understand myself better and get through the daily life. Thanks, you are a blessing 🙏🏼
I’m like you…..I love truth and wisdom and intelligent conversations, but I find chickens around me who iether can’t, won’t or are agreviated by any conversations about in-depth things..
I wish we could meet all together ,I mean us victims
same here
@Pirupami no mate but I’ll check it out now.
Go get your crush
yep me too
Hey Physch2Go I love you,please hear me out! I have problem now – I need these videos to stay okay because being Introvert with Insomnia completely destroying me every day. So while I’m alive,I watch the remaining fragile years of my life with good contents like you. Thank you for this,you changed my life everyday
Same here 🤝🏻 😂
🙁 GWS 🐻
@Rickrolled Chung.
the editing for these videos are getting so much better and it makes me so happy bc it actually keeps me like FOCUSED on it and it helps me visualize it
“Wear red”
My crush: **is colorblind**
Ah yes, I’m sure that’ll get them
Then wear any color!
Wear green…green and red are the same frequency
I don’t know what to say to that
Hahahahha this in a nutshell
I’m curious about the red dress study. Did they make the two women swap dresses at any point and do an equal amount of meetings? What if the girl in red was just more attractive or seemed more inviting? That could cause the data to skew towards the red dress. Also, how big was the sample size?
I ask because find myself less attracted to red. So I wonder if I’m an outlier or it the study has some flaws in data collection.
I wonder if something else was going on there too. Just because the men wanted to spend time with the red dress ladies and sit close to them doesn’t necessarily mean that they were falling for them, right? I think that the colour red gets associated with sex and sexy ladies, so there were potentially other motives going on there? 🧐
that’s so interesting that you’re not attracted to red, our mind is fascinating!
also, they linked the source for that study in the description, you can read it for free
Haha girl in red get it because funny reference
@Miss B oof
I didn’t even notice. ty
No wonder I’m attracted to my crush
She’s always happy, making jokes, and just a fun person to be around
I’d like to argue that number 4 slightly contradicts number 3. If you’re always happy, that’s not realistic and you might come off as being “perfect”. Which as a result might lower your attractiveness.
It just imply that being mostly happy is better
Giving off good energy and happy vibe is important but showing that your life is not perfect, you are not perfect is great cause people start to make nonhuman expectations which you can’t blame them for..
Always being nice is just showing emotional maturity unless you see a threat, then, dont be nice but know how to do it right or you’ll look like a loose cannon.
VIBE CHECK!!!
Amazing tips as always! I’ve found the leg sweep very effective in making others fall for me, but I think I’ll be using these tips in the near future.
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It’s important to remember that these signs can all be exploited. Certain people unfortunately haven’t learned to/don’t want to commit to any deep love but still know exactly how to push anyone’s buttons to make them fall in love. Thus, it’s super important to look out for signs of incompatibility, flakiness, two-timing with multiple people and other player behavior if it’s commitment you’re looking for. Even the most sensible and intelligent people can be fooled so always look out for signs it’s too good to be true.
Thank you u said it smh ppl so gullible
Salesmen have mastered the mirroring one.
I love this channel. It helps me to understand myself and my emotions better. I liked the earlier animation style a bit more but It is valuable and helpful anyway. I admire this work. ❤❤❤
Just be yourself and let the right people get drawn to you.. 🙂
Hey there, that’s good advice I reckon. At least then the person will like who you are, not who you pretend to be. What good is that? Nothin’.
Not to be a contrarian, but try looking outside of people like you…you’d be surprised who’s out there. Edit: I think I put this under the wrong comment.
@Pirupami Sorry, no idea but I looked them up. Why?
Exactly
If I did that I would still be a virgin
Wow! This makes more sense now. In a society where too many are seeking perfection, why not seek progression? I’ve had girls who didn’t see me in the best light at first, but were immensely blown away that I turned everything around. I just had to warm up!
Great video!!
Just an observation 🤷♂️
Number 3 is important, some people even fall for someone else’s clumsiness. It’s in the human nature that we want to be as close to perfect as possible, but it’s impossible. Very interesting video, thanks! ❤️🙌
@Pirupami what ab it?
Now I know why everyone likes Kim Mingyu….just kidding
the first time i saw my crush was when he tripped himself on the stairs hahahhahah
This was the most intimidating tip to me and probably the most revealing. I used to be 350 lbs and I lost 115. I now have a “Chad body” I’ve been told but I’m still a nerd. It’s been insanely hard for me to connect to anyone for years. I don’t know if this is an “aha” moment or if I’m just wrong and that’s not the reason I can’t connect with people 😔
@Evan Taylor Washington don’t contend, instead learn how to yield. Without humility you will not succeed in connecting with others. With self praise you won’t shine. With complaints, the complaints won’t end.
Love the Jujitsu Kaisen clip. 😂🤣😂🤣 I also love how the DSMP is referenced in the animations so much. I’m a long time subscriber, and these videos have helped me understand myself and my trauma so much. Thank you guys for the support on my road to recovery! 💕💕💕
Gojo is simply the perfect example 😎
Timestamp?
@rotten 2:25
i was just watching then i was wait a second was that gojo and had to go back i was not expecting that
“The elements in a relationship which seem impossible to share, the secretly disturbing, dissatisfying elements, are the most rewarding to share. This is a hard, risky, frightening thing to learn, and it needs to be re-learned over and over.” – Carl Rogers
1. mirror your partner (0:50)
2. actually spend time with your partner (1:32)
3. show you are capable and intelligent, but still human (2:37)
4. show your positive side (3:43)
5. wear red (4:22)
6. make a good first impression (5:15)
If its meant to be its meant to be. Sometimes we dont even know why we fall for the people we fall for but it just happens and there’s no set formula or way to make someone like you. At most these tips might help you make more friends or make you seem more charming but won’t always make someone like you romantically.